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The words husband and lover both share a common etymological root, hinting at their historical and cultural significance in relationships. A girl in Christ with common sense calls her man one of these 2 words to define his true role in her life. For a woman of deep faith, the term “partner” wouldn’t fully encapsulate the profound spiritual significance of her man’s biblical role in her life, according to the word’s origins. But you didn’t know that, did you?

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Discover the historical origins of the word husband and why you should use it post. Because every girl in Christ should know.

Super Awesome Side Note: Before we start, understand we will not claim contested truths. And we will refrain from falling into the trap of “teaching man-made ideas as commands from the Creator.”

Out of respect for believers, we will simply acknowledge the multiplicity of views on this subject (the keyword is “acknowledge” and not agree). That said, this is a non-exhaustive list. So use this list to do further research.

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TL:DR A quick post glance:

1. Husband Lover Boyfriend Defined
2. Like why should you call him husband, like really?

Sound great? Okay, ladies. Let’s start.

1. Husband + Lover + Boyfriend Defined

To grasp the historical biblical definition of a husband, it’s crucial to explore the original Hebrew and Greek terms that define this role. In Hebrew, “ish” represents a man and his role as the head and leader of the family. Likewise, in Greek, “anayr” underscores the idea of authority and leadership in the marital relationship (Gaines, 2023).

As per the Strong’s Greek Concordance, the Greek term “anér” mainly signifies an adult male, distinguishing him from a boy or a woman. It commonly denotes a man in his capacity as a husband. New Testament writers use “anér” to depict men in various roles, including leaders, husbands, and community members. This term highlights the sex and frequently the maturity or position of the person (Strong’s greek: 435. ἀνήρ (ANÉR) — man, husband 2024). Fancy, eh?

In summary, the historical biblical text outlines the husband’s role as a physical provider, a faithful man to his wife, and a spiritual leader. These duties align with biblical principles of love, commitment, and the significance of cultivating a resilient and God-honoring marriage (Gaines, 2023).

That being said, let’s explore the word “partner.” It’s a term used by people in social media and within Christianity, which doesn’t carry the same historical significance as the term “husband.” According to the Strongs Greek Concordance, the term “partner” is identified as “koinónos” which signifies someone who shares in or takes part in something with others. This term indicates a sense of partnership or fellowship, commonly in a spiritual or communal setting. In the New Testament, it is employed to depict individuals who partake in the sufferings of Christ, the propagation of the Gospel, or the blessings of the Christian community. There is no direct Hebrew equivalent, the concept of partnership and sharing can be related to the Hebrew word חָבֵר (chaver), meaning “companion” or “associate.”  (Strong’s greek: 2844. κοινωνός (koinónos) — partner, Sharer, companion, Participant 2024). Wild, eh?

You are now familiar with the definitions of both husband and partner. That being said, ladies do you want to call your man/lover/boyfriend a “partner”, meaning “someone who shares in or takes part in something with others?” Or perhaps you prefer to refer to him as “husband,” a title that implies a responsibility to provide guidance, security, and support to his family, emphasizing the concepts of authority and leadership within the marriage. Is the difference visible to you? Providing guidance, security, and support is not a requirement for a partner, but it is expected of a husband in a family. Quite fancy, don’t you think? 

Something to ponder: According to the historical biblical text, does Christ Jesus state he is your Husband or partner? See Isaiah 54:5 + Ephesians 5:25-27 + Revelation 19:6-9.

Now let’s explore the term “lover.” As per the Strong’s Greek Concordance, “lover” is translated as “philoxenos.” In the New Testament, philoxenos is used to portray the concept of hospitality, emphasizing the love and care extended to strangers and guests. It conveys a willingness to receive and support individuals outside one’s close circle of family or community. This act of hospitality goes beyond mere social obligation; it reflects the essence of Christian love and generosity (Strong’s Greek: 5382. φιλόξενος (philoxenos) — hospitable 2024).

During the Victorian era, a man and a woman engaged in courtship (aka lovers) could not physically express their affection or speak openly about it. Instead, couples conveyed their emotions through the art of writing love letters. These letters served to nurture a relationship and cultivate love respectfully. They were considered sacred and highly personal, with strict rules dictating that no family member could read them. Upon receiving a love letter, the recipient would retreat to their room to read it in private. This era, known for its self-help literature, even produced books on the art of writing love letters, such as “The Dictionary of Love” and “The Art of Good Behavior.” (Victorian dating rules: A subtle game of Etiquette – Historic Mysteries 2023).

It seems that the word “lover” has a historical significance beyond just lust. Hmm… are love letters are superior to texting, eh?

Let’s explore the term “boyfriend.” As per the Strong’s Greek Concordance, it doesn’t exist. Wild, eh?

Research ❤ Isaiah 54:5, Ephesians 5:25-27, Colossians 3:16, Matthew 1:16, Mark 10:12, Matthew 1:19

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2. Like why should you call him husband, like really?

The word “husband” carries a weight of history, spirituality, responsibility, and tradition, resonating with the echoes of generations past. Ladies, referring to your husband as your “partner” would not capture the depth and spiritual significance of his role in your life, both historically and etymologically. Fancy, eh?

Words and their origins are important. For instance, in the past in the Western world, the term “date” was associated with a woman being a prostitute. Men used to “date” women for that reason. This could explain why the terms “boyfriend” and “dating” (modern) are not found in the Strong’s Greek Concordance.

Super Awesome Side Note: The evolution of the term “date,” which I’ve observed for some time, further shows the importance of choosing words carefully. In the 2010s, history enthusiasts may have noticed a shift in using historical date markers, with AD (After Death) and BC (Before Christ) being replaced by BCE (Before Common Era) and CE (Common Era). Some may find this change unnecessary and believe it is an attempt to diminish the significance of Christ. It is suggested NOT to use BCE or CE as they seem illogical to our Creator.

Research ❤ John 3:16

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Major Takeaways

You now explored the historical origins of the word husband and why you should use it.

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