3 most influential biblical principles for establishing healthy boundaries | AWAYION BEAUTY

Hi, Friends!

Establishing healthy boundaries is an important aspect of personal growth and maintaining healthy relationships. But you are constantly allowing others to cross your boundaries, because you just want to be liked, eh? Or you have no clue how to set healthy boundaries, right?

So what can you do?

Uncover 3 most influential biblical principles for establishing healthy boundaries, in this post. Because every girl in Christ should know how to set healthy boundaries.

Super Awesome Side Note: Before we start, understand we will not claim contested truths. And we will refrain from falling into the trap of “teaching man-made ideas as commands from the Creator.”

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TL:DR A quick post glance:

1. Personal responsibility for healthy boundaries
   
2. Love + respect for healthy boundaries
3. Healthy communication + honesty for healthy boundaries

Sound great? Okay, ladies. Let’s start.

1. Personal responsibility for healthy boundaries

The Bible places great importance on individuals taking personal responsibility for their actions and choices. It emphasizes the need for people to recognize and communicate their own needs, values, and limits in order to establish and maintain healthy boundaries. This principle encourages honesty with oneself and others, enabling individuals to clearly define boundaries that align with their personal values and beliefs.

So, what does an example of personal responsibility actually look like in everyday life? Well, if you have taken the time to read the historical biblical texts, you are likely aware that adultery is something that can happen between a man and a woman. Adultery refers to engaging in intimate relationships with someone other than your spouse. Therefore, if you are a woman contemplating a relationship with a man, it would be important to have a conversation with him about his values on adultery. It is possible that he does not prioritize the Bible in his life, or it might surprise you that you both share the same biblical values. Discussing his values will assist you in establishing distinct boundaries that align with your own personal values and beliefs.

Research ❤ Matthew 5:28, 1 Corinthians 6:9, Proverbs 6:32

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2. Love + respect for healthy boundaries

According to the historical teachings of the Bible, love and respect are fundamental to all relationships. Creating healthy boundaries entails showing love and respect for oneself and others. This entails treating oneself with kindness and respect, while also acknowledging and respecting the boundaries of others. It also involves establishing boundaries that safeguard one’s well-being, while still considering the needs and emotions of others.

So, what does an example of love + respect actually look like in everyday life? If you are acquainted with the verse from Proverbs that goes, “A fool always loses his temper, but a wise man holds it back,” then you have a clear illustration of love and respect. How so, you ask? Well, conflicts are inevitable in relationships because no one is perfect. That being said, a wise woman knows the importance of respecting a man by having control over her words and actions, and vice versa. As a woman, it’s possible that you won’t always see eye to eye with a man’s words or actions. However, it’s crucial to establish a principle of love and respect in all situations by controlling what you say and how you act.

Take a look at the book of Esther as it provides an excellent example of a woman who genuinely loved and respected her husband. She displayed her love by being attentive and considerate towards his position as king. Meanwhile, the king showed her love and respect for her opinion. That being said, it is noteworthy that historical biblical texts emphasize the significance of respecting our husbands, ladies.

Research ❤ 1 Peter 3, Proverbs 29:11, Ephesians 5:33

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3. Healthy communication + honesty for healthy boundaries

Open and honest communication is vital in establishing healthy boundaries. The Bible encourages individuals to speak truthfully and lovingly, expressing their needs and concerns without fear or manipulation. Clear communication helps establish boundaries that are understood and respected by both parties, fostering healthy relationships built on trust and understanding.

So, what does an example of communication + honesty actually look like in everyday life? Ladies, when you express to a man, who you envision as your future husband, that you desire to wait until marriage before engaging in physical intimacy, you are genuinely communicating your intentions (psst… a healthy boundary). If he agrees to wait for you and actually follows through, that’s fantastic. He is showing you he is truly a man of God. However, if he initially agrees to wait but later tries to cross that boundary, he is being dishonest in his communication. He is showing you he is truly NOT a man of God. In this situation, it is crucial to uphold your boundaries since there is a possibility that he might be evaluating your moral values.

Now, look at the book of Acts of the Apostles, which offers an interesting illustration of a couple who exemplified the lack of healthy communication and honesty. Meet Ananias and his wife Sapphira.

Ananias and his wife Sapphira failed by lying to the early Christian community. They sold a piece of property and decided to keep a portion of the proceeds for themselves, while presenting the rest as a full donation to the community. However, when they presented the money to the apostle Peter, he confronted them about their deceit. Ananias fell dead on the spot, and a few hours later, Sapphira arrived and met the same fate. Their failure stemmed from their dishonesty and attempt to deceive the community and God. It is important to not emulate their behavior and lack of boundaries.

So, as a wrap up, by following these biblical principles of personal responsibility, love and respect, and communication and honesty, ladies can establish healthy boundaries that promote their well-being and contribute to healthy and fulfilling relationships.

Research ❤ Acts of the Apostles 5:11

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Major Takeaways

You now uncovered the 3 most influential biblical principles for establishing healthy boundaries.

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