3 Killer Red Flags Found in a “Great” Relationship | AWAYION BEAUTY

Hi, Friends!

Have you ever struggled with recognizing red flags in your romantic relationships? It’s a terrible feeling, isn’t it?

I understand. This problem becomes even worse if you’re wearing rose-colored glasses or if you’re naïve.

So what can you do?

Discover how to spot 3 killer red flags signaling trouble in a “great” romantic relationship, outlined in this post. Because every girl in Christ should know when to remove her rose-colored glasses.

*Disclaimer: These tips could help you if you use self-control. And these tips could help you if you are a believer in Christ. Also, always do further research. Also, the sources for this or any post do not equal a full endorsement of any ministry or evangelist’s personal views by Awayion.com.**

TL:DR A quick post glance:

1. Secrets & lies
   
2. Being unnecessarily busy
   
3. Only friends (aka “We are just pals”)
   

Sound tantalizing ladies? Okay, let’s start

1. Secrets & lies

Some men are skilled at leading double lives. Their secrets and lies ooze like a foul stench — meaning this red flag is obvious unless you are wearing rose-colored glasses. But, how you ask? Have you heard everything hidden will be uncovered? If so, then you know the truth will always be revealed. At that, secrets and lies are huge red flags in a “great” relationship.

As ladies, we have a special ability to discern lies. It’s called women’s intuition. So ladies, if you feel something is amiss — and you feel it deep in your guts — you can try to seek clarity from your man. But beware, his response could trigger a gnarly, gut-wrenching feeling. If it does, this “may” be a sign of a red flag.

That being said, have you ever heard the saying, “Let your words be ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything more comes from evil?” If so, then you know about lying. When you sense your man’s responses are lies, it’s time to replace him with someone who exudes honesty.

Research ❤ Matthew 5:37, Luke 8:17

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2. Being Unnecessarily Busy

Nobody is as busy as Christ Jesus (Messiah Yeshua) with 24 hours in a day. Nobody.

Ladies, picture this: a vibrant red flag waving in the wind as your man constantly claims to be busy. The silence of unanswered messages hangs in the air for over 24 hours, leaving you feeling unsettled. Gnarly, eh?

That being said, if your lover leaves you hanging for over 24 hours. All. The. Time. Then it’s time to snatch your rose-colored glasses off. You deserve to better.

If a man can’t be there for you when you need him — in a reasonable amount of time — it’s time to tell him to kick rocks. Have you heard that for everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under Heaven? If so, you know, if a man truly loves you, he will make time for you, and you’ll feel it in every fiber of your being. Period.

Research ❤ Ecclesiastes 3:1

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3. Only Friends

Men can seek solace in friendships with girls, devoid of romance. If perchance you harbor a contrary belief, it may reflect unfamiliarity with this reality.

That being said, a red flag in your relationship is if his girl “friend” is actually his lover. But you need to have concrete evidence, such as you caught them kissing or buying couples phone-cases, etc. Then you know for sure his “only friend” is a red flag. At that, drop him from your phone contacts and your life. Our Heavenly Father will choose a guy for you who does not mess with your heart.

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Major Takeaways

You now know how to spot 3 killer red flags signaling trouble in a “great” romantic relationship.

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